No orgasm during sex

I have been sexually active for the last 1yr but have never had an orgasm. I always get mind boggling orgasm when I masturbate. I read that sometimes ur body gets used to the way u mastirbate and orgasms only that way. I tried exploring ideas that cud help but nothing worked. While he does turn me on n i enjoy the sex with him, he is the only one getting orgasm every single time. This makes me want to try having sex with someone else just to see if someone else can make me get an orgasm. I dunno what to do? Shd i live without it forever and rely on masturbation only?

do u really want to do it with someone else?
what if you get an orgasm with that other person?
are u looking forward to leaving this current guy?
you did say you enjoy having sex with him,the only problem is the orgasm,.
most women will die without reaching orgasm. At least you do experience it by touching yourself.
The choice is yours.

I don’t know if it will help, but why don’t you try masturbating with him. You start, and then let him take over, and see where it goes from there. Have lots of foreplay as well. I hope this helps :)

Many women can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation. It’s completely normal. I like for my guy to rub my clit after he finishes so that I can finish too. He loves that.

Hey Petunia

I dont want to have sex with someone else really. But i do want to figure out why I dont climax. Had it been the case that i dont at all, i would have understood. I even spoke to a doc and he said i have something called hypo arousal issue. He prescribed aome vasodilator but I havent taken them as I wasnt satisfied with his evaluation when I know I have a desire and arousal. My man is very understanding, he trying to get a vibrating ring and stuff to help me out.

You just have to find the right position that will give you the same feeling as masturbating. Try grinding when you’re on top or when he’s on top, get him to grind on you while you’re doing it

You can touch yourself during sex! For a while unless he was going down on me the only way I’d cum was my touching myself during penetrative sex (easier if you’re on top). It’s sexy to be into getting pleasure and still involves him obvi.

Since you only get orgasm when you masturbate, try masturbating with him, allow him to use whatever toy you enjoy or allow him to finger you the way you like it then you can probably enjoy everything